Ever wonder how some guys just have the ability to talk to women effortlessly while you find yourself sweating and mumbling without the right words to say? It is by no accident that some men have this capability while others don’t.
How do you think some of the great athletes got to where they are today?
One word – practice.
See, the guys that just seem to have that knack for talking to girls have probably had tons of practice. Maybe they work with a lot of women or maybe they grew up in a house full of women.
The point is, they have gotten practice at talking to girls so that it comes as second nature to them.
What does this mean to you and how can you even the playing field?
Easy, you just have to practice.
I remember what it was like when I was mumbling trying to find the right words to say only to have the girl look at me awkwardly and walk away. It was then that I realized that I needed some help.
What I did was start talking to women – every where. Work, the store, in line at the post office. I am talking any where. They key is to get comfortable talking to the opposite sex. One thing that I found was helpful was to talk to women that I had no intention of picking up. This made it less nerve racking. The funny thing was the more comfortable I got striking up a conversation about the long lines or the bad weather, the easier it got talking to any woman. A byproduct of all of this was while I was “practicing” I was finding that the women I talked to were actually interested.
Once you get the approach and conversation part down all it comes down to is closing the deal. But that is another post.
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